tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7759181581545514761.post2540263944785568370..comments2022-11-05T04:02:13.321-04:00Comments on Holy Hotness: the "Black girl curse"pVIhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12881301257312705464noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7759181581545514761.post-55890244631152993442012-03-20T21:31:05.504-04:002012-03-20T21:31:05.504-04:00Thanks, V_Well--I think we're on the right tra...Thanks, V_Well--I think we're on the right track as far as keeping hope alive for the "bruhs". In fact, this whole issue has inspired me to pray about ways to be part of the solution instead of just complaining about the problem. So the question I ask myself and other black women is "What can we do to help our men become [and see us as] 'suitable' marriage partners?" When I come up with an answer, or if you do, let's be sure to share the knowledge! :o)peculiar VIrtuehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02010905307262142271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7759181581545514761.post-53226287817779817942012-03-19T13:31:30.594-04:002012-03-19T13:31:30.594-04:00Very insightful post! It is crazy how difficult it...Very insightful post! It is crazy how difficult it has become for black women to find a suitable black man. And the more I progress in life, the slimmer the chances seem to get. However, I agree that we should not simply eliminate our options of being with a black man nor disregard our generation and go for the older. Patience is the key word here. In addition, chances are always slim when you're trying to go for the right thing, or the best thing for you, so perseverance is another key term here. We will get there. Personally, I am trying to continue to better myself, so I will be ready when that man comes. Definitely don't want to miss out on him and have to start the whole process again lol. So no settling either.v_wellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07531308694750722140noreply@blogger.com