[Note: The title of this post came from a momentous speech of the same name, originally given by Sojourner Truth.]
Detaching my femininity from my sexuality (or lack thereof?) is becoming somewhat of a serious issue for me. This has nothing to do with gender or sexual orientation, so let's just get that straight [pun definitely intended]. But I have been grappling with the proper expression of my second X chromosome, as in "How should a single Christian woman celebrate her womanhood?" Outside of being married and having children, is it still considered a celebration? From my experience, not quite.